I was at work all day and even though it was hot and i had loads of jobs to do, it went really fast and i quite enjoyed it. No weirdo customers so that was a real bonus.

After work i rushed to get ready to go for a meal for my sister's 15th birthday. I had asked the Boyf the day before if he would mind giving me a lift down the road to the bus stop so i wouldn't be late. He said he didn't mind.
So i get to the restaurant and have a really nice night. The food was yummy and family are on form. We have a right laugh and sis loves her pressie .
I get the bus home and get in at about 10.30, just in time to watch the end of Big Bro!
The Boyf is in the shower and when he comes out he is acting all short with me. So i go ask "what's up, are you ok?"
"yes"
"well it's just you seem a little quiet, are you pissed off at something"
"Well, yeah i've been cleaning up all night"

And so it carries on. Basically he reckons i left a right mess in the flat and he's annoyed that after a hard day at work he has to spend 3 hours (according to him) cleaning up after me. This gets me a little mad. I swear all i left in the house was some pots (1 glass, 1 mug, 2 small plates), and i didn't have time to hoover or make the bed. For fucks sake!! The flat is as neat as a pin!!!

So i leave him to it and watch the end of Big Bro. I get into bed and we carry on bitching at each other. I'm just not prepared to accept what he is saying! He says i'm messy all the time and i take him for granted that he will clean up after me and drive me wherever i want to go. Total crap. So i tell him i don't take him for granted at all. I feel like i'm constantly cleaning when i'm here. His standards are insane! Now i know it is his house and he pays the rent. I'm just staying here when i'm not at uni and he says he doesn't want any rent from me, just help with shopping money etc. Therefore i feel i have to stick to his cleaning rules because i don't have to right to be messy and slob around here. I thought i'd been doing a good job. Evidently not. It's really pissing me off. I suggested i should take some of my stuff that i don't really use back to my mum's house then he got all over-the-top and said fine, why don't i just move back there. So i asked him if he wants me to stay here over the summer and he replied that he definitely wants me to and loves having me here. For god's sake!!!! So at the end of it all i agreed to make the bed every day.  How stupid. What a lame waste of time thing to argue about. I did manage to get the last word in though. "So you are mad at me because i didn't make the bed, wash the pots and i left my make-up bag in the living room" What could he say to that. Now he sounds like a nob. Which in my opinion he is being.

So what to do today is the question?? I have to day off. Do i be well behaved and clean up an already clean flat, making the bed in the hospital fashion that he demands? Or do i take some of my posessions that he moans about me having too many of to my mum's house in an effort to de-clutter some shelves/drawers? *sigh* I am still pretty mad at him. I don't really want to hang around here until he gets home. I HATE being told what to do.