I went out for my friend's birthday last night. The Boyf was invited but doesn't really care for said friend very much and so said he didn't want to come. Fair enough. The meal was at 7pm so i left the flat leaving the Boyf in a bad mood because he was going to be on his own on a Saturday night. I told myself it wasn't my fault that he was being grumpy so i just got on with it and went out to have a good time. Well one thing leads to another and we end up getting pretty drunk and i crawled home at 3.30am. The Boyf was really pissed off. I woke him up because it's nearly impossible to get ready for bed in the same room and not wake him and he was mad with me because i wouldn't turn the light off when i got into bed. I needed the light on so the room wouldn't spin! He disappeared (probs to the sofa) and i passed out. When i woke up this morning he was next to me so must've got back in at some point but now he isn't speaking to me! I don't think i've been a terribly bad girlfriend for going out for my friend's birthday! I rang him when we got to town to see if he wanted to join us for drinks because some of the guys that he is friends with were coming but he said he didn't want to come out. At least i offered! I hate it when he's like this. I find it really hard to know what to say to him. I know he just wants to spend time with me but i can't be glued to him permanantly. Friends and socialising are a huge part of my life. He has changed so much in the last 2 years. When we first got together we would go out drinking and dancing all the time. Now he isn't interested. Again fair enough but don't have a go at me when i decide i'm going out. I still enjoy going out getting drunk. I don't even go out as often as i used to. It's not like i'm some kind of crazy party animal that gets wasted all the time. *sigh*
I hope his mood improves soon. i can't deal with this all day long.